Well, you can start by remembering these three basic rules: It’s not that “You’ve got a great smile, let’s go out sometime” is a bad opener. I read your profile and thought it was really amazing. So please look at my profile and if you like what I had to say, write back to me when you get a chance. If you’re too complimentary in that initial email, you can come off as desperate and needy. Still, the question remains: how do you say something original and flirty?Yours, Evan Every line of this message can be thrown out. Because anyone whom you contact knows by virtue of you writing to them that a) you liked their profile, b) you liked their photo and c) you’d like a reply. That, my friends, is what separates the most successful online daters from the rest of the pack. In this case, I’ve written them for men replying to women, but the steps are applicable to everyone: Every word of it.If you are a dude sending a message to a cool chic, get it into your head, you are not the only one. ’ or ‘I think I who your favourite actor is,’ work great.
Whatever happens, don't be put off sending messages, a cheesy message is better than no message at all!If you want to attract a quality partner, you need to show why others should choose what you are offering over everybody else.And without learning how to write perfect online dating emails, you will never have the perfect sales pitch.By commenting on something that they have written in a jokey way, you are showing that you have a sense of humour and it is also nice to compliment someone’s personality in this way.The message also emphasises a common interest in horse riding and ends with a friendly question, which would encourage the person to reply.You have a stronger chance of getting a speedy response.